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i make sure that they catch me while looking
I think its inappropriate. It makes the dude look creepy.
I say they should pick their battles when it comes to women.
I really don’t care. Out of all the things to worry about, whether a guy might look at my butt is on the bottom of the list. Look, just don’t stare and don’t say anything.
Well it may be rude, but mostly every guy is gonna stare anyways lol
Just remember just because you CAN doesn’t mean you SHOULD.
that said im ok glancing lol. and if she consents sure ill stare longer
I mean, even if 99% of people said : “No” , I’d still do it.
I’m part west African, I can stare at asses ANYTIME I want!
Of course it’s okay. In fact, I feel an obligation to. I mean, I assume that’s why women dress the way they do, right? I don’t want to disappoint them after all.
whether it is okay or not actually does not matter it is going to happen regardless. the better question is why? the answer is… biology. men are hardwired to look at certain features because those features determine if one will be a good mate. and while that may not seem “prevalent in todays society” biology doesn’t care about society. The whole reason we say that generally guys want a girl with hips and breasts is because those girls are the ones who tend to have the easiest time getting pregnant, bearing children, and birthing them. so most men are attracted to that. The same way most girls are attracted to guys with some muscles, guys who are masculine, guys who are for lack of a better word “manly”
second part of this though comes down to this reality… guys don’t look at girls who are dressed modestly the same way they do girls that are not dressed modestly. as a result ladies if you are not okay with guys looking your features then you would need to dress differently or accept that it happens. The way one dresses is entirely there own choice. if a guy dresses with his pants sagging most people are going to stare at him. ladies if you dress in tight shorts or booty shorts or whatever people are going to stare. in either situation the solution is the same. dress differently if it is that much of a problem
Let’s put this in another way…
“Is it okay for a man to stare at people with cold eyes?”
His intent? I don’t know… when a man stares at a girl’s butt? What’s his Intent? I don’t know… but pretty sure both have same uncomfortable feelings.